Managing the Loss of a Loved One
by: Bill CongerFeb 15, 2025
Angela Davis experienced an unspeakable tragedy in her life not once, but twice. The first loss occurred in 2010 when her husband died. She and her teenage son went to the Haven of Hope for grief counseling with therapist Kay Quintero.
“I felt like–and I think my son felt the same way when his father passed that—we were in a safe place and we knew that it was private,” said Davis, who agreed to share her experience for this story to help others. “We could just pour our heart out to her. It made us stronger to where we could move forward and talk about it with other people.”
So much so that her only son, Corporal Bryan Tyler Vanhoose used his trial to provide empathy to others grieving a loss.
“Whenever he joined the Marines, he was a strong advocate against suicide,” Davis says. “He would help certain people that was in the Marines, if they were having really difficult time, he would share his experience that he had, with his dad and addiction.”
In 2019, Davis’ son passed away suddenly and again, she returned for individual counseling. “I think you’re just so raw and you’re just so emotionally not good. You don’t want to live. I just felt safer with Kay for a while. I didn’t want to go talk about that with anyone else but her. She kind of got me back on my feet and got me to where I could plug through the day and head off to the next day.”
A few months after her son’s death, Davis and her second husband gave group counseling a try with Heart of the Cumberland in Cookeville.
“The group that I was in was mothers that had recently lost a child and that was really helpful. I guess it was six of us maybe in that small group and it was all women. There were some mothers that had just lost their child that month. One mother had lost her son and his girlfriend. They died in a car accident, and he had just turned 16. It really helped being with a group of individuals that are going through your same thing.”
Learning how to manage grief like Davis processed is something the Haven of Hope and Heart of the Cumberland would like to help with the people in DeKalb County. Later this month a workshop will be held on managing grief.
“This is for people who have suffered loss recently or in the past and would like to learn strategies and gain resources for coping with grief,” veteran therapist Kay Quintero said. “The Haven of Hope offer this comprehensive workshop featuring certified professional counselors from DeKalb County Haven of Hope. Sessions will be available for adults, teens, and children ages 4 and up.”
The adult seminar will include understanding the grief process, normal emotions for grief, coping strategies, meeting others where the common denominator is grief, differences in men and women grieving, what adults need to know about children grieving, and available resources for help. Licensed counselors will lead these classes with age level grief activities.
The grief workshop will be Saturday, February 22, 10:00 a.m. until 2:00 p.m. at Smithville First Baptist Church in the activities building, located at 101 West Church Street. Pre-registration is required . To register or for more information about costs, call the Haven of Hope at (615) 597-4673.
Former Alexandria City Employee Files Federal Lawsuit Against Mayor Beth Tripp and City
by: Dwayne PageFeb 11, 2025
A former Alexandria city employee has filed a federal court lawsuit against the city and Mayor Beth Tripp claiming she was wrongfully terminated.
Patricia Houser, a former town recorder, court clerk, tax collector, and backup water clerk, is suing the City of Alexandria and Mayor Tripp in her individual and official capacities for deprivation of due process under the 14th amendment and for slander, defamation, and defamation by implication, in violation of state law.
Houser is seeking a jury trial; reinstatement to her position; compensatory and punitive damages; payment of lost wages and benefits; attorney’s fees, etc.
Houser is represented by the Nashville law firm of Biesecker, Dutkanych & Macer, LLC
WJLE has obtained a copy of the lawsuit as follows:
FACTUAL ALLEGATIONS
On or about October 15, 2023, Houser was hired by Defendant as Town Recorder and Court Clerk. One of Houser’s main job duties was to ensure that all laws, ordinances, statutes, charters, etc. were properly followed.
Throughout her employment, Houser also fulfilled the jobs of Tax Collector and Back-up Water Clerk for Defendant.
At all relevant times, Houser met or exceeded Defendant’s legitimate performance expectations. Houser’s employment file with Defendant has no record of disciplinary actions or performance improvement plans.
On or about August 2, 2024, Houser informed Defendant Mayor Tripp that her last day would be August 23, 2024. A few days later, Mayor Tripp spoke with Houser and begged her not to resign; Houser agreed to continue working for Defendant.
Shortly thereafter, Mayor Tripp inappropriately removed an Alderman off the Town Council. This Alderman was appointed through August 2026. As a result, Houser, in her role as Court Clerk, appropriately reported the matter to Police Chief Travis Bryant. Chief Bryant asked Houser to ensure that Mayor Tripp was following the proper legal rules and regulations for her actions. Acting diligently, Houser then contacted the Municipal Technical Advisory Service for clarification as to the proper procedure.
Around this time, Mayor Tripp asked Houser for the keys to the mayor’s office. Houser did not immediately hand over the keys as the keys in question gave Mayor Tripp access to more than just the mayor’s office, such as access to law enforcement items. Houser instead gave the keys to Officer Deffendoll, as recorded by the City’s cameras.
On or about August 14, 2024, Houser was verbally suspended by Mayor Tripp without written notice or any other disciplinary action taken.
On or about August 19, 2024, Mayor Tripp held a public disciplinary meeting — without providing notice to Houser — about Houser’s employment, where Mayor Tripp falsely reported to other city officials and employees that Houser had provided false information, was dishonest, and was insubordinate. Houser was not given a private meeting, nor was Houser given the opportunity to defend herself or otherwise be heard. Though Houser did not receive any communication whatsoever that she was officially terminated, upon information and belief, it appears that Houser was terminated on August 19, 2024. Around this time, the entire City’s police force resigned as well.
On or about September 1, 2024, Mayor Tripp conducted an interview on a national news network – News Nation – falsely accusing Houser of, among other things, impeding an investigation. At the time, there was no active investigation.
Mayor Tripp made false, malicious, and defamatory statements or statements that are defamatory by implication. Mayor Tripp’s comments, directly or as implied, have accused Houser of criminal conduct and/or malfeasance in the performance of her job duties.
In addition to costing Houser her job, Mayor Tripp’s defamatory comments, both locally and nationally, have decimated her reputation throughout the community.
Houser has been damaged as a result of Defendant’s actions.
CAUSES OF ACTION: COUNT I: VIOLATION OF FOURTEENTH AMENDMENT
The Defendants acted under color of state law in carrying out their unlawful actions. Plaintiff, as Town Recorder / City Recorder and County Clerk, has a constitutionally protected property interest in her employment created by virtue of TN Code § 6-4-201 et seq., as well as by the Alexandria Municipal Code 4-310, requiring both notice in writing of all charges, together with an opportunity to respond to the charges.
Further, Plaintiff has a constitutionally protected liberty interest in her employment. Plaintiff did not violate any laws or policies under any of her job titles and duties. Defendants deprived Plaintiff of her right to due process by suspending her without written notice, holding a public disciplinary meeting without her present, not allowing her to exercise her right to a pre-adverse action hearing, and terminating her employment.
By presiding over the Board meeting regarding Plaintiff’s suspension and termination, Defendants denied Plaintiff her right to a meaningful forum for which her suspension or other disciplinary action could be presented and deliberated impartially and terminated Plaintiff’s employment. Further, Mayor Tripp made public stigmatizing statements about Plaintiff that were false.
COUNT II: DEFAMATIONAND DEFAMATION BY IMPLICATION
Defendant Mayor Tripp has committed the tort of defamation, in order to undermine Plaintiff’s credibility and to destroy her reputation among the public and her peers by publishing statements which were false or defaming to Plaintiff and/or publishing statements with reckless disregard for the truth of the statement and/or negligence in failing to ascertain the truth of the statement.
Defendant Mayor Tripp knew or should have known that these statements were false at the time they were made. Plaintiff is not a public figure.
WHEREFORE, Plaintiff, Patricia Houser, respectfully requests that this court enter judgment in her favor against the Defendants, jointly and severally, and award her the following relief:
Compensatory damages in an amount to be proven at trial:
Reinstatement to her position with concomitant pay, seniority, and benefits;
Payment of lost wages and benefits;
Punitive damages against the Defendants in their individual capacity in an amount sufficient to punish Defendant and deter like conduct in the future;
An award of Plaintiff’s attorney fees, expenses, and costs, pursuant to 42 U.S.C. § 1988;
Permanent injunction enjoining Defendants from any acts which further deprive Plaintiff of her constitutional rights;
Such further, other, and general relief to which Plaintiff may be entitled
Under an order by US District Judge Waverly D. Crenshaw, Jr. this case has been REFERRED to the Magistrate Judge for customized case management in accordance with Local Rule 16.01 and 28 U.S.C. § 636(b)(1)(A). Lead counsel for the parties shall attend the initial case management conference.
The parties shall be prepared to engage in a discussion with the Magistrate Judge of the substantive factual and legal issues presented, either on or off the record as the Magistrate Judge determines, such that the parties and the Magistrate Judge can have a realistic discussion of the progression of this case and possible issues preventing settlement. The parties shall include a plan for resolution of the case that includes at least two independent attempts to resolve the case that must be approved by the Magistrate Judge. The first attempt shall occur within 120 days of the initial case management conference and the second attempt shall occur before the deadline for filing dispositive motions. The parties are encouraged to consider the Alternative Dispute Resolution options provided in Local Rule 16.02 through 16.05.
This case shall be set for trial upon completion of the initial case management conference by order of the Court in accordance with the procedures of Local Rule 16.01(h).
Mother Charged with Keeping Her Child Out of School
by: Dwayne PageFeb 11, 2025
A mother has been charged with keeping her child out of school.
26-year-old Kelsey Elizabeth Steinbach of Keltonburg Road is charged with six counts of failing to keep a child in school. Her bond is $12,000 and she will be in court February 20.
Sheriff Patrick Ray said that on February 6 a detective received attendance records from the youth services officer for DeKalb County. In these records it states that a minor child had 65 unexcused absences in the 2024-25 school year. On December 19, 2024, the mother of the child, Steinbach signed an order acknowledging that it is her responsibility to ensure the child is attending school and the after-school program each and every day that school is in session. Steinbach knowingly and intentionally committed the act of educational neglect by not making sure the child attended school. After the order was signed by Steinbach the child missed and additional eight days of school.
34-year-old Mitchell Reed McBee of Lebanon is charged with a second offense of driving on a revoked license. His bond is $3,500 and he will be in court February 20. Sheriff Ray said that on February 7 a deputy pulled over a Chevy S-10 for a traffic violation and spoke with the driver, McBee. A background check through central dispatch revealed that his license was revoked due to a DUI charge. He also had a prior DRL offense on September 18, 2020 in Sequatchie County.